وَحَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ بَشَّارٍ، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدٌ، - يَعْنِي ابْنَ جَعْفَرٍ - حَدَّثَنَا شُعْبَةُ، عَنْ عَاصِمٍ، عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ، عَنْ جَابِرِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ نَهَى رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم إِذَا أَطَالَ الرَّجُلُ الْغَيْبَةَ أَنْ يَأْتِيَ أَهْلَهُ طُرُوقًا ‏.‏

It has been narrated (through a different chain of tranmitters) on the authority of Jabir who said: The Messenger of Allah (PBUH) forbade that a man who had long absent should come to his family like (an unexpected) night visitor. Translation Not Available

Book Ref: Sahih Muslim Book 33 Hadith 4730
Web Ref:  Sahih Muslim Book 20 Hadith 715 z