وَحَدَّثَنِي عَنْ مَالِكٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ عَمْرَةَ بِنْتِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، أَنَّهَا أَخْبَرَتْهُ أَنَّهَا، سَمِعَتْ عَائِشَةَ أُمَّ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ، تَقُولُ وَذُكِرَ لَهَا أَنَّ عَبْدَ اللَّهِ بْنَ عُمَرَ يَقُولُ إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ الْحَىِّ . فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ يَغْفِرُ اللَّهُ لأَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ أَمَا إِنَّهُ لَمْ يَكْذِبْ وَلَكِنَّهُ نَسِيَ أَوْ أَخْطَأَ إِنَّمَا مَرَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم بِيَهُودِيَّةٍ يَبْكِي عَلَيْهَا أَهْلُهَا فَقَالَ " إِنَّكُمْ لَتَبْكُونَ عَلَيْهَا وَإِنَّهَا لَتُعَذَّبُ فِي قَبْرِهَا " .
Yahya related to me from Malik from Abdullah ibn Abi Bakr fromhis father that Amra bint Abd ar-Rahman told him that she had heardA'isha, the umm al-muminin, say (when it was mentioned to her thatAbdullah ibn Umar used to say, "The dead are tormented by the weepingof the living"), "May Allah forgive Abu Abd ar-Rahman. Of course hehas not lied, but he has forgotten, or made a mistake. The Messengerof Allah, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, passed by a jewishwoman whose family were crying over her and he said, 'You are cryingover her, and she is being tormented in her grave. ' " Translation Not Available
Book Ref: Muwatta Imam Malik Book 16 Hadith 559
Web Ref: Muwatta Imam Malik Book 16 Hadith 37