حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ، حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو مُعَاوِيَةَ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ جَامِعِ بْنِ شَدَّادٍ، عَنْ كُلْثُومٍ الْخُزَاعِيِّ، قَالَ أَتَى النَّبِيَّ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ رَجُلٌ فَقَالَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ كَيْفَ لِي أَنْ أَعْلَمَ إِذَا أَحْسَنْتُ أَنِّي قَدْ أَحْسَنْتُ وَإِذَا أَسَأْتُ أَنِّي قَدْ أَسَأْتُ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ـ صلى الله عليه وسلم ـ " إِذَا قَالَ جِيرَانُكَ إِنَّكَ قَدْ أَحْسَنْتَ فَقَدْ أَحْسَنْتَ وَإِذَا قَالُوا إِنَّكَ قَدْ أَسَأْتَ فَقَدْ أَسَأْتَ " .
It wasnarrated that Kulthum Al-Khuza’i said: “A man came to theProphet(PBUH) and said: ‘O Messenger of Allah, how can I know, when Ihavedone something good, that I have done well, and if I have donesomething bad, that I have done a bad deed?’ The Messenger of Allah(PBUH) said: ‘If your neighbors say that you have done somethinggood,then you have done well, and if they say that you have donesomethingbad, then you have done something bad.’” Translation Not Available
Book Ref: Sunan Ibn Majah Book 37 Hadith 4222
Web Ref: Sunan Ibn Majah Vol 5 Book 37 Hadith 4222